St Valentine of Rome

Updated: Aug 9, 2019

Today more than ever people are looking for someone to love them because it is “Valentine’s day” or because they feel depressed, unwanted and unloved. The secular and marketing world has perverted the Love of the Martyr Valentine to sell cards, flowers etc. St Valentine loved God. He gave his life for Love of God and neighbour. This love drove this Priest and Martyr onwards to preach, teach and to serve the people of God so as to save their souls from death. He loved them and suffered proving this love. No were in the study of St Valentine is there a need to be loved but one of loving God and others.

St Valentine Baptising St Lucilla

Saint Valentine, priest and martyr, lived nearly 1,700 years ago in pagan Rome. Father Valentine answered God’s call to the priesthood at a time when it wasn’t easy to be a Catholic, and it was downright dangerous to be a priest or bishop. The infant Catholic Church was being brutally persecuted by Emperor Claudius II. But that didn’t scare young Valentine! He knew that the Christian Faith was the only remedy for the sick and permissive society in which he lived. Especially when it came to Her teachings about the relationship that should exist between a man and a woman as husband and wife. Polygamy was the norm in pagan Rome. And to make matters worse, the Emperor issued an edict that prohibited the marriage of young people. This was based on the hypothesis that unmarried soldiers fought better than married soldiers because married soldiers might be afraid of what might happen to their wives or families if they died in battle. Saint Valentine took that edict as a challenge. He made it his own personal mission to share the Catholic vision of marriage and the graces of the Sacrament with all those who would listen. And he would go one step further; he would secretly marry as many couples as he could. Father Valentine was eventually caught, imprisoned and tortured for performing marriage ceremonies against the edict of Emperor Claudius II. But even while in prison, Father Valentine found ways to carry on his mission. One of the men who was to judge him was a man called Asterius, whose daughter was blind. Saint Valentine prayed with her and healed the young girl with such charity and compassion that Asterius himself became a Christian as a result. In the year 269 AD, Valentine was sentenced to execution all because of his stand for Christian marriage. The last words he wrote were in a note to Asterius' daughter. He inspired today's romantic missives by signing it, "from your Valentine." So what does it REALLY mean to be a “Valentine”? Simply this: that there comes a time when you have to lay your life on the line for what you believe. And with the power of the Holy Spirit we can do that – just like Saint Valentine.

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Abandonment to Christ in our trials

Uncertainty, anguish, disgust are very bitter remedies necessary to the health of souls. There is only one road that leads to Jesus, namely that of Calvary; and whosoever will not follow Jesus upon this road must give up that thought of divine union. “If any man will come after Me, let him deny himself, and take up his cross, and follow Me.” If everything happened to us just as we could wish, if we had no doubts or uncertainties for the future, etc., we should quickly become full of self-sufficiency and secret pride; and, instead of exciting the bounty of the Father of Mercies and of drawing down His compassion on His poor weak creature, we should be an abomination in God’s eyes. Let us therefore set to work. Our Lord loves us, He sees into the depths of our souls, even into recesses hidden from ourselves; let us leave Him to act, and not try to make Our Lord follow our way of seeing things, but follow His in all simplicity.

Blessed Columba Marmion, O.S.B.